I just found out that my fiance’s friends are planning to take him to Montreal for a weekend for a bachelor party. We are from Boston, so I don’t see what the point is to drive 6 hours to see strippers when they can just do that here. I called my brother, and he said a good friend of his is also planning a trip for a friend to montreal. All of those guys aren’t telling their wives or girlfriends where theyre going — theyre lying and saying theyre going camping. Im starting to think I shouldnt be annoyed at what theyre doing, and just glad he’s telling me the truth. Thoughts? What is your fiance doing??
as good look as tom cruise is, hes a total quack. I dont disagree with the idea of a bachelor party, I just dont understand the point of having to go so far away to do it.
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If a man truly loves his woman he does not need a bachelor party.- Tom Cruise
hell no. i wouldn’t let my guy go to a strip club here or anywhere. the idea of bacjelor parties are so backwards. so one weekend he’s gonna be shoving dollar bills in a slutty strippers thong and then the next be tearfully saying his vows at the altar?
he’s doing what you also should be doing & More
LOL *Just Kidding*
Relax & just poke around a little bit…you may have to get in touch with his other friends’ wives/gfs if you feel like there’s something fishy happening,
but if he loves you and if he has always been loyal & honest to you..i’m sure he’s gonna come out clean & blurt everything out to you,
Give the guy the benefit of the doubt, perhaps HE’S not even sure what he’s heading for
Bottom line is, Relax & don’t tackle the subject too quickly…take it easy….nothing stays hidden forever
I disagree with both answers so far. My fiance and brother and father in law all went to a strip club, and it didn’t bother me at all because I had complete trust that he wasn’t going to pay money for action he could easily get from home. Don’t let it get to you, guys do it all the time.
What happens in Montreal, Stays in Montreal……cept herpes. It comes back with you
What pisses me off is that my fiancee and all his buddies go to Vegas every time someone gets married. Strippers? Ugh, but whatever. But stop blowing money on expensive trips and gambling when we’re trying to start a life together. His cousin’s bachelor party in Vegas is coming up, so I’m trying to talk him into a less expensive alternative. Heck, I’d rather have an awesome Bachelorette Party trip than a bridal shower, but we need just that– to be showered with that which will help us build a home. Suck it up and enjoy the gifts that our friends and family want to give us at home. That’s what I say.
We haven’t discussed it, but he may go to a bar with a few friends or go hiking. I have no idea why anyone would need to go to another country to see strippers either. Maybe Canadian strippers have three boobies.
We haven’t really discussed it. But if he wants a bachelor party he can have one. He doesn’t really need one because there isn’t anything he does now that he can’t do once we’re married. He doesn’t even like strip clubs, he’ll go with his friend once in a while and I sometimes go with them. My guy doesn’t even really watch the strippers, he’ll just drink a beer or two and play pool. I dunno if you’ve ever been to a strip club or not, but they’re really nothing to worry about.
However, I wouldn’t really like the idea of him going out of town for a whole weekend, but still, it’s a bachelor party so I wouldn’t really say anything about it. Just let him go and have fun. Remember, he’s coming home to marry YOU. The bachelor party is more for the friends anyways, not to mention, his friends are also taken so it’s not like they’re going to be pressuring him to do anything. I do think it’s low that they’re lying to their Significant Others about what they’re doing though.
I actually planned my fiance’s bachelor party. It didn’t include strippers. He did, however, INSIST that I go see male strippers the next night… and no, it wasn’t a decoy, because he was with his parents that evening.
It’s pretty crappy that all those other guys are lying to their wives and gfs. What’s wrong with having a guy’s weekend? Hopefully your fiance won’t get goaded into doing something completely stupid.
Luckily, neither me nor my husband agrees with strippers, so I didn’t have to worry. He liked them when he was single, but he feels it’s disrespectful to me (his words, not mine). He has been to other guys parties that have had them (he was a groomsmen, had to go) and he said he felt really uncomfortable the whole time. I don’t tell him he can’t go, but I do let him know it bothers me that he was in the same room as a naked girl, but I trust him. Just be glad they are going to a club (where there are rules) and not having a private party. Those things get nasty.
My husband and his friends spent a day go-carting, mini golfing, and basically being boys. Then they went to a house and had a cookout and played yard games and got drunk.
Yes, now that i am engaged it was something that always came to my mind. “Ugh, what about that dreadful bachelor party” lol “what if he goes to a strip club? what if he does this? what if he does that?”, only i actually now feel that i do trust him. And im a very hard person to actually trust someone. I actually wouldnt mind him going to one, but i dont even dare to let him know!!! hahah because im sure he would be tempted to, and if he doesnt say he wants to go why would i bring it up right? lol but….
The good thing is that my fiance decided he would actually like for us to do it together! i was surprised, and i thought it was a good idea. The good thing is that he’s being totally honest about it and you know what he’s doing, unlike the “camping trip” going on over there. Its always good to have that open communication so that lies dont come about in the relationship, because those can break the relationship up.
I would be happy that he was at least being honest with me. And trust is one of the most fundamental parts of a marriage. So at least it is going to start off in the right direction for the two of you.
Besides, while they are away why don’t you plan yourself a nice weekend bachelorette party.
Montreal is an amazing city to visit, especially for Bachelor Parties and Bachelorette Parties. Why? The city is so vibrant and fun! The nightlife, the entertainment, the incredible food and the proximity of all these places in our downtown.
The city is not just about strip-clubs. The bars, the shows, the festivals. You may drive six hours, but you truly feel far from North America on the whole when you visit Montreal.
If you would like to have a wonderful trip organized for you and your friends, checkout Montreal Nitelife Travel and their blog too! They keep it honest and really make sure you have a great time in Montreal!